Granny's gone and done it again

[Cynthia12]

Im home honey!
Jane, no seeds today. Supposed to be low 20s all week.

Burr..that's cold! Do you worry about busted water pipes?

 

[Cynthia12]

It went ok, they drew blood and will call with the results.

Seems we're always waiting on results.

 

[Jory]

Hi, I go by Jory. It actually has a mineral meaning.

About a year and a half ago DH bamboozled my daughter and I into an arrangement neither of us wanted. We live in a shared tenancy in a small 3 bedroom mobile on a piece of property that none of us can afford alone.

Grandma, me, never intended to need to raise another child. Especially one so spoiled and used to his own way. We went rounds for a while. He did learn to control himself and quit hitting his teachers, classmates, and caregiver.

I tried really hard to tell DH that I was too old to take on a child and a homestead at this point.

The child is better, the property looks like crap.

Last summer (2020) DH had to go on a warranty repair in Barrow, Alaska. It was okay, but he was gone when the work needed done.

This summer (2021) DH had to go on a warranty repair on Shishmaref island in the bearing sea.
He came home in a very small box after walking into a 'Rona delta-d outbreak that he wasn't prepared for.
He died Oct 5.

So, here I sit, with people who don't really want me, in a situation we can't afford. Trying to work out who needs notification, what to do, and fending off his family members who are determined to take his ashes away.
We were married for 37 years.

So, a new beginning for me I guess. Once I can find somewhere I actually can belong.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Oh yes! How many times have you gone about that??

Its fine if you are tired. Its 9:45 here and passed 11 where you live.

this will be the 2nd test.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Burr..that's cold! Do you worry about busted water pipes?

sometimes if its going to be like 20 below I will let the water drip.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Hi, I go by Jory. It actually has a mineral meaning.

About a year and a half ago DH bamboozled my daughter and I into an arrangement neither of us wanted. We live in a shared tenancy in a small 3 bedroom mobile on a piece of property that none of us can afford alone.

Grandma, me, never intended to need to raise another child. Especially one so spoiled and used to his own way. We went rounds for a while. He did learn to control himself and quit hitting his teachers, classmates, and caregiver.

I tried really hard to tell DH that I was too old to take on a child and a homestead at this point.

The child is better, the property looks like crap.

Last summer (2020) DH had to go on a warranty repair in Barrow, Alaska. It was okay, but he was gone when the work needed done.

This summer (2021) DH had to go on a warranty repair on Shishmaref island in the bearing sea.
He came home in a very small box after walking into a 'Rona delta-d outbreak that he wasn't prepared for.
He died Oct 5.

So, here I sit, with people who don't really want me, in a situation we can't afford. Trying to work out who needs notification, what to do, and fending off his family members who are determined to take his ashes away.
We were married for 37 years.

So, a new beginning for me I guess. Once I can find somewhere I actually can belong.

Im so sorry for your loss and your situation.

 

[CapricornFarm]

how come your light isnt on?

I wore it out.

 

[CapricornFarm]

Tom is up. Guess I will go to bed. Sweet dreams all
dreading tomorrow.

Good night Granny, rest well. I need to go to bed soon too.

 

[CapricornFarm]

Seems we're always waiting on results.

That's medicine, hurry up and wait. Took me at least 20 years to figure out i have IBS. The gastroenterologist had no idea back then.

 

[CapricornFarm]

Im so sorry for your loss and your situation.

So sorry for your loss! That's awful.