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I need some feedback. My Callie kitty is going to die soon. (kidney problems) I can probably spend some money and fix her up for a while. She's 16. I am choosing not to because she pees everywhere! She has not used a litterbox in 5 years or so. She's even peeing in my bed! I feel awful because I could take her to the vet and prolong and improve her life, but I'm sooooo tired of the peeing. Your thoughts, please

16 is a good long life. I honestly would not have put up with the peeing for 5 years, very saint like IMHO
 
I'm glad that a lot of you have spouses that are glad that you've found friends here. I don't think mine understands, I think he thinks I'm nuts lol. He has his friends

:hugs Me too! I love my DH, but he never talks. Never did. Never starts a conversation. Very quiet serious dude. Friends and work people, only talks when he needs to. So upstanding, honest, trustworthy, reliable. I knew that when I chose him. I do live with a stranger. It works for me. Ya'll and all of my friends for sure know me better than DH does. For me, it was much easier when I went to work every day and interacted with so many people! I stopped working outside the home last year. I swear I could fall dead and DH wouldn't go looking for 2 days. It's ok though. I hate drama. I enjoy this family so very much. Love the shared interests and humor and caring. It's all good! :hugs
Same here Mutt, unless there wasn't anything on TV. I remember the first five years of our marriage as soon as the fire pit was uncovered from snow we were out having a campfire every weekend. Would do that all fall until it started snowing. We talked so much then, about our dreams. Things really changed 9 years ago when I had my brain surgery. I became very forgetful, he couldn't depend on me to work like I did before. He would get frustrated with my forgetfulness. Now he gets frustrated because I can't lift or work like I used to be able to. No concept of what it is like being in pain everyday. I know he loves me, but wish things were different.
 
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I need some feedback. My Callie kitty is going to die soon. (kidney problems) I can probably spend some money and fix her up for a while. She's 16. I am choosing not to because she pees everywhere! She has not used a litterbox in 5 years or so. She's even peeing in my bed! I feel awful  because I could take her to the vet and prolong and improve her life, but I'm sooooo tired of the peeing. Your thoughts, please



16 is a good long life.   I honestly would not have put up with the peeing for 5 years,  very saint like   IMHO
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Hi Twisted, got your Christmas card today, thank you for it. My door is the fullest its been in a number of years. Most people don't send cards anymore, so very nice to see all my cards every time I'm in the kitchen :hugs
 
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