sorry,You seem like a confident person. If you greeted me in a way that singled me out by a physical trait or aspect of my personality I would laugh it off and then never voluntarily spend time with you again.
I spent the bulk of my college days greeting my girlfriends by saying "hey b****!" and seeing nothing wrong with that. Now, I feel differently. That's not the way I choose to behave.
I know many a time here I have greeting you calling you "gal" or "ma'am". I will do my best to refrain from it.
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