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I know you love Tom, but are you guys in an arranged marriage to just stick with each other until he passes? That is such a horrible question.... but you are young yet...

I do love Tom. Not 100% sure what you are asking. I have never stepped out on him . He is like a son to me. I know how odd that sounds . I married Tom for Robert. He had good morels and a small income . He married me because his wife of 40 yrs. had just passed and he was very lonely. He had no idea how to take care of himself . we got along good enough . After he had his stroke he turned into a child that couldnt wipe himself . I Did everything for him. rehab the whole nine yards. Its just a different relationship. Not really man and wife yet married. I dont know if that makes sense or not ?
 
I do love Tom. Not 100% sure what you are asking. I have never stepped out on him . He is like a son to me. I know how odd that sounds . I married Tom for Robert. He had good morels and a small income . He married me because his wife of 40 yrs. had just passed and he was very lonely. He had no idea how to take care of himself . we got along good enough . After he had his stroke he turned into a child that couldnt wipe himself . I Did everything for him. rehab the whole nine yards. Its just a different relationship. Not really man and wife yet married. I dont know if that makes sense or not ?

Yes it does... my question was not well represented.. Sorry about that.. but it does make perfect sense.. sorry.
 
Yes it does... my question was not well represented.. Sorry about that.. but it does make perfect sense.. sorry.

Your fine , I dont have any secrets really. I havent done anything wrong. But, I would like to and that is wrong. I am more like Twist then he even knows . I dont think I would ever remarry. I have nothing to offer a man in marriage. That part of my life is gone. I am spoiled rotten by Tom to where another man would never have me. I am waited on.
 
Your fine , I dont have any secrets really. I havent done anything wrong. But, I would like to and that is wrong. I am more like Twist then he even knows . I dont think I would ever remarry. I have nothing to offer a man in marriage. That part of my life is gone. I am spoiled rotten by Tom to where another man would never have me. I am waited on.

I think most people go through a short lived stage of thinking something similar in different circumstances.. I wouldn't beat yourself up too much over that.
 
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