Small update on the job front - went to the interview this morning (unemployment office) and I think it went really well. Stopped by to drop lunch off to DH on my way back through town and we got to chatting about it all. I think we've decided I'm going to pass on the two P/T jobs and hold out for the interview for the FT one at the end of the month.....it's a gamble, I know, but worst case scenario if the FT doesn't come through I can go to work through any of the local temp agencies and get placed pretty easily. I left my last job with a full pay check and two weeks of vacation time to be paid out so right now we haven't "missed" a paycheck from me yet and it's going to put us in the best position to be saving for the big move and potential time between jobs then if I am working FT vs. PT. I feel better after our talk because I felt a lot of pressure to take whatever came along first, and that was leaving me conflicted because the first thing wasn't necessarily the best thing --- figured DH would expect that given that he gave me his support in getting out of the misery of the last job, but turns out he was okay with me waiting it out a bit longer and is not feeling what I thought he was probably feeling about me being off right now (guess that's where actually communicating helps rather than ASSuming what the other person thinks or feels, right, lol)