Gosh you have so much on your plate at the moment. When things get topside of me, my chickens are the thing that calms me and chills me out. When they have issues or suffer though it works the other way.
Look after yourself granny, sometimes you can get worn out being a carer and dealing with all the problems. You can get ill yourself.
Your such a lovely lady and so funny and I don't like to think of you upset.
Sending you a very big hug xx