Sad that the the older kids have had to pick up the slack, but that happens in all families in time of need. Praying they will all pull thru this. How is SIL acting after you red him the riot act.I did today. you know how hard it is to change poopy butt with wet paper towels ? she has a 16 yr. old that does and SIL. she didnt let my GS stay this weekend so he can help as well. he is 10.