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LOL   I just hate letting people down already getting cards saying how much they enjoy my "newsie/funny letter"      I take it back to  you ever suggested the farm site there are women on there and will browse thru more intently after the holidays.  
Twist, there always going to be those people that say they love your newsie letters, but how many of them are doing one themselves? If it really something you dont enjoy doing, discontinue doing it (Without the Guilt) You do so much stuff for everyone at this time of year & I'm sure probably more often than I know about. You are one person, love thyself, cut thyself some slack, you DESERVE IT! IMO sorry on the war path again :gig
 
 
 
LOL   I just hate letting people down already getting cards saying how much they enjoy my "newsie/funny letter"      I take it back to  you ever suggested the farm site there are women on there and will browse thru more intently after the holidays.  

:hugs  Of course they do! I don't think that means they would EVER want you to feel any guilt if you didn't send one this year. They were just telling you how much they enjoyed what they did get. I think as I would, they would never expect it and would feel just awful if you pressured yourself to fulfill a perceived expectation rather than you jotting down and sharing your thoughts if that gave you joy. Again, just sayin.



true.    My sister's in-laws   asked last year how come I wasn't sending them card/letter any more.  Her response was you have to send one to get one.  LOL  Guess what showed up int he mail yesterday .
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Lets face it I am far cry from perfect so I shouldn't expect perfect in return. And I don't The guilt thing is usually done tongue in cheek for me. on most things. I just truly hate letting people or myself down.
Boy oh boy mister. You put so much pressure on yourself. I get the OCD. I don't get trying to convince yourself that you should be better than pretty darned awesome!
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It wasn't a trust or cheating issue.    She has matured a lot and I have mellow a lot since we were together.  

So she's in a relationship now? Sounds like do-overs might be in order! Off topic, did you get snow? I stalk the weather chanel to see what ya'lls weather is like. Camping got nasty rain!


I think Bert's was worse.
 
 
LOL   I just hate letting people down already getting cards saying how much they enjoy my "newsie/funny letter"      I take it back to  you ever suggested the farm site there are women on there and will browse thru more intently after the holidays.  

:hugs  Of course they do! I don't think that means they would EVER want you to feel any guilt if you didn't send one this year. They were just telling you how much they enjoyed what they did get. I think as I would, they would never expect it and would feel just awful if you pressured yourself to fulfill a perceived expectation rather than you jotting down and sharing your thoughts if that gave you joy. Again, just sayin.
Very well said Mutt, that's how I wanted mine to come out, lol not so much for mine :gig
 
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I have gotten anal about that if you just send me a picture card or a card only with no Hi/go to h3ll or anthing thing then that's what I send back. I can usually "crank" out the 40 or so I send in a day or 2. They will be in the mail by Monday. My goal is to get them mailed before Christmas NOT that they get them before then.
 
 


Lets face it  I am  far cry from perfect so I shouldn't expect perfect in return.  And I don't       The guilt thing is usually done tongue in cheek for me. on most things.   I just truly hate letting people or myself down. 

Boy oh boy mister. You  put so much pressure on yourself. I get the OCD. I don't get trying to convince yourself that you should be better than pretty darned awesome! :smack  
Agreed, many woman would be interested. How many people can say they have a mate that can do all the womanly chores on top of the men's work. Very surprised that Twist is not already in a long term marriage.
 
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