have to say good-bye :(

[chickerdoodle]

Um, someone who blames another for any or all problems when they clearly had nothing to do with it will not get better--will only make your life worse as you walk on eggshells (pun intended).

I do not know you or your husband but it is always wise to rethink the relationship if you are unhappy (saying he is an a@*hole) and decide if its a good thing or bad thing and then take action. Good luck with whatever you decide.

 

[maizie]

You did make friends. Everyone who has read this is your friend.

I have a very sad feeling here. I watched my grandmother being mentally abused by my grandfather. She wasn't allowed to have anything except what he allowed.
Hope something can be worked out for you to stay connected.

 

[Warthog]

So sorry

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[Keene's coop]

PLEASE don't feel sorry for me. i chose to stay because of my kids. i have nothing to leave with except my kids and i have to put them first. at least here, they have the basic needs that i cannot provide myself, until my inheritance. so until then, i just make the best of it and live my own life with my kids. it's working for now. and we have road runner. and our cable and internet is one bill. only $70 per month. and as for the computer, it's old. i can't get him to understand that. i'm not talking 5-6 years old, i'm talking 15 years old. i'd pay it but i don't work and haven't for 8 years. otherwise i would paythe bill. i'm gonna keep comming until it's disconnected. maybe i can change his mind. but i'm gonna keep comming here as much as i can and the library sounds like a good idea. i'll just have to do it when the kids are in school.

 

[KKatknap]

Well, I will look for you. Don't think you don't have any friends. The library is a great way to check in, so give it a try.

Yeah...I have a computer geek buddy that would probably

at a 15-yr-old computer. It's definitely the computer...it can't handle the technology of today. Maybe sometime you can find one on craigslist that you can upgrade to.

Very sorry about the relationship.

Hope it gets better.

 

[Elite Silkies]

This about you leaving, so I will keep it to that. But, you do have friends here and were always here when you need us. If you ever just a need a shoulder, you've got mine.

 

[Mrs. Fluffy Puffy]

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[cluckers&quackers]

Sorry things are going the way they are hope you can get to the library and use a computer there I don't personally know the people on this board, but I think everyone are friends, because they all do what friends do and help each other out

With questions and answers, and a shoulder to lean on if needed

 

[Keene's coop]

you guys are great

i just went on craigs list and responded to some babysiting ads. i've been putting it off. i took all the classes i need to becomes a licenced daycare provider. i'm gonna try to put it to use. then i will pay the bill. wish me luck

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