So, I have just read all through this post and having been through it twice, once with a Silkie and then an Orp, you have done a great job. Yes, it is nerve racking, but always stay calm, lots of warm water, q-tips etc and all goes well. We did ours with Bat Cave Silkies and Hen Thymes no the cell phone - thank God for unlimited minutes, both hatched out ok, left them for hours in the incubator to dry out and settle them selves.
Chicks are hardy critters, just leave them to rest after they have been assisted out and they will be fine.
Would I be able to do it again, and help someone - YES! We got helped and now I'd be able to assist someone else, even if they were local to the point of visiting to help.... That's what BYCer's do...