Harry Rooster, i am sorryfor your loss. Please don't let the Negative Nellies on this site make you even more miserable. Some of us are on this type of thread to try to help people that are having problems that they can't handle on their own. And some people just seem to stalk this type of thread....... I learned a long time ago that not everyone is perfect....... In case you don't know, there is a 'block button' that comes in very handy if there is a site member that you just don't care to hear from again. Use it! I do! Best wishes