Yep, I know. I'm not dissuading him at all but trying to prepare him the best way I know how. He knows I don't want him to go, but I won't try to hold him back... just make sure that he knows that he knows that he is very much loved and can come home any time. He has worked a bit of construction with me, building barns and such but I'm trying to locate friends with heavy equipment that can give him a quick tutorial on operating those machines. Trying to increase his chances of being put into the area that he wants to go into.