Equest94, yes, I am very well aware that auctions and private sales are two different animals. Horses saled in the mid-west also can go for much cheaper than the Northeast. In my area the only "cheap" horses to be found are:
1.very old, really should be retired/companion
2.horses/ponies with health issues, soundness issues
3. nutcases
4. downright dangerous.
5. and an array of other abnormalitys
I am not an auction goer as I just can't handle horse auctions, but I have heard as I am sure you have also of the diamond in the rough that comes out of some of them but I would not say it is a common occurance.
I have read and talked to few in other parts of the country where there are some "deals" because of the market being the way it is.
I think Shelly and her family obviously needs a very beginner packer type but also they need to know about all what goes with it FIRST. Lessons are an excellent start, see if you can learn and watch what goes on in their care etc. Try and find a facility with a good reputation and learn all you can before "making the move" there is more to it than people think. You could also find that you might not even want to own a horse.
A beginner does not need quality (registerd, papers, $50,000.00 worth of training, bloodlines etc). A beginner needs quality( safe, sane, healthy, kind, bomb-proof) so that they can fall in love and hopefully learn to become responsible and caring horse owners and gaining experience along the way for more challanging situations such as illnesses, injuries, training issues that arise along the way.
I do not think any of us mean this in a bad way at all Shelly, we are just experienced horse people who have seen alot and are trying to offer good advise to you. Please feel free to ask any other questions you might have and we will try to help.