I guess I'm fully urban in comparison! In the middle of a town of 100K, neighbors within 15' on either side, but a 200' long back yard.
We get along well enough because everyone respects each others' space- one neighbor has a really shabby looking exterior, and we don't have a garage, so we have a bunch of tarped stuff until we get one up...it would be perfect if we could manage it, but no one can, so we have tolerance and patience.
It's good to not have to fuss with the nearby folks, but the only ones we have trouble with are the jerks behind and over a bit who beat their pit-bulls...we're still trying to get video of it because the animal control won't do anything about it.