- Jun 4, 2012
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Unfortunately, I had to participate in an assignment with a control freak today. Long story short, we were put into groups of five and asked to answer five questions on paper and then discuss our answers. I started writing, she started talking. I continued to write my answers and finished in about three minutes. During this time, she is talking about her opinions and how she would handle things and then calls me out and says, "arent you going to participate? Or maybe you dont need a group?" Followed by, "oh im sorry, thats just the way i am". I simply answered that I was going to complete my answers as discussed and then participate. After that, she wouldnt even look at me. I held no ill will but apparently she did. The boss even mentioned it during the meeting. She asked why she had such a sour look on her face and if she was okay. She just answered "sure". I feel like this girl is covering up the fact that she doesnt have much confidence and deflects responsibility by trying to control and direct others responses. After we adjourned, I heard her talking to another person about me in the stairwell. My instinct says avoid the snake. Snakes bite. Its just their nature. Leave them alone. What would you do?