http://www.diversifiedenterprizes.com/pages/mist/3%20pack%207%20oz.html
Sounds like you already know that many cleaning agents are toxic.  This is a link to a mfr. of a safe odor controlling product.  You can also buy it one can at a time from multiple sources; Amazon.com carries it, or do a Google search, or look locally; it's $5.27 a can on 
Amazon and lasts for months as one spray does it.  Or if you have a good natural/health food store around....
I'm sure there are other similar products out there, but you will not find them on grocery store shelves, at least not around here.  Certainly don't use anything like Lysol.  You could try an open bowl of vinegar in the room; works on smoke, at least.  
Most candles are also toxic, unless beeswax.  But then, nonstick pans can kill birds, too.  And commercial air fresheners are really bad, IMHO.
If I were desperate, I'd probably put a little vinegar out in a small bowl, and cut up an orange or some other citrus fruit and put it in a bowl in my room....  Never tried this, but then I always keep Orange Mate Mist in the house....