I am sooo not coping right now.

[oesdog]

I said i would post pics of the castle cake DH made so here it is.

Here is DH at the party help Jessica with her new ball pool gift. He is very sore and not at all well. His arms are covered in black bruses from the heart tests he has been going through but still he managed to produce this beautiful cake and all teh little cup cakes as well.

Oesdog

 

[HenCrazyMom]

Beautiful cake and many hugs to your family. You have amazing strength! The love you show to your family DH, DSS, DD and DGD--absolutely amazing!. Many prayers heading your way.

 

[redhen]

Beautiful cake!! Where did your hubby learn to do that?? Hes very talented!

 

[Momagain1]

absolutely beautiful cake!!! (and lil girl too!)

I agree; not all churches are like the ones you have experienced!!

I know our church, we have a severely disabled (mental and physically) young boy who sits w/his mom and screeches/hollers etc...
and we've NEVER asked them to leave, we've NEVER told them to be quiet..we've NEVER made them feel uncomfortable...
sometimes he does it at just the right time and we call it his "amens" lol...

just as in ANY church there are some ppl who are holier than thou on sundays and craptitudes the rest of the wk....

GOD DOES make house calls such as someone said here earlier...

However, I truly believe you must get some type of respite care...
I know here in the US, most towns/cities etc have some type of respite care for the elderly and/or mentally/phyically disabled for their
sole caregiver...MOST of the time it is covered by insurance; othertimes it is nurses who do it for free...

PLEASE call around and see if there is anything like that where you are!!

 

[oesdog]

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Here you have to go through social services and they "don;t" have any places or appropriate care right now so that is why we have to rely on family etc. Its not that easy here to get out of home rest bite.

oesdog - yeap the cake was lovely!