I hate diets.

You can eat as much as you like with fresh veggies. You just don't want to stretch your stomach to make you crave a large portion of something else. People have to eat different things based on their blood type and how their body functions. There's no such thing as a diet that works for all. I have to have meats. If I don't, I end up at Burger King or something getting the biggest burger they have if I went more than a week without having it at home. My husband can live off beer and cheese if I let him. He's also a vegetarian, which makes my diet even harder.

Your meats aren't the issue, keep on that. Fresh veggies are never an issue. But when you get into your canned goods, even the ones you did yourself... you really need to watch the portions on that. A good portion would be like an 8th from a normal sized mason jar.

Sauces are bad too. How many women do you see at the salad bar drenching their "diet" salad in range and bacon bits? Counter productive. Serving size is 2 tablespoons, and look how fattening that stuff is with just that little serving. Not even with good fats. And sodium will bloat you faster than anything and make you feel like you gained 40 pounds or something.

All the oils, most are good too, in small amounts. Like if you need it in the pan and want a light covering, actually measure out the two tablespoons. Don't pour it until it looks "right".

Butter and cheese.... needs to go away or you need to really watch the portion. An actual per-the-label portion is tiny. Just enough to make you want more.

Home baked stuff is great, but really break down your ingredients and see if there is a healthier alternative to use. I made brownies with olive oil instead of shortening like the box said. Still got my brownies from a box, but no butter or shortening. My biscuit recipe calls for like a whole stick or butter. I just haven't made them. Watch those cakes, cookies, pie crusts... all of it.

A lot of the "all spice" has loads of sodium. Custom mix your spices to avoid the salt.

Don't worry about counting calories. Watch the portion size, eat frequently, tiny bits. Nuts are high in fat, you need some of those fats. But measure out what you're going to eat and not pick them from a bowl as you go. A thick layer of peanut butter on a piece of bread exceeds the serving size and almost doubles what the label says. I checked! The way I make a peanut butter and honey sandwich is all kinds of wrong.

Don't count anything, just measure your portions and set them out before starting. Bags and containers are awful things. Same with popcorn. I'll eat the whole bag I made if it's in front of me. And not even realize it until it's gone.

Salami, pepperoni, bacon, bacon bits, soy burgers, soy sauce, ranch and similar, ect... all things you can eliminate and dramatically reduce because of the sodium and the fat content.

Did you know that in pre made low fat meals they'll use paper as a filler? Yum. Gives new meaning to "tastes like card board".

I don't mess with anything fake or reduced fat. It's either good for me or it isn't and I try to stick with what's good for me. Like when you make bread and it says add sugar. You can add fake stuff. Go ahead with the sugar. Or cook and mash sweet apples, use twice the amount of sugar... like if it calls for 2 tables spoons of sugar, use 4 of the apples. ta-da, sweetened right up. Naturally. Not fake.

I found this mayo at Trader Joes, it's so not hellman's, but I got used to it and it's way better for me. Sort of tart. Doesn't even have not one preservative in it.

I sit on my butt all day, I do that every winter. But I haven't gained any weight from where I was in August. I could stand to lose 15-20 pounds, but I need to move around for the last little bit. But I've lost and kept off 20 pounds for the last 4 years.

The best meal I have made so far has been Spaghetti Squash Lasagna. OMG. I load it with garlic, and all kinds of veggies, from spinach and tomato to sweet onions. It tastes sinful, but it really isn't. I don't add salt. Use only Olive Oil, Garlic Powder, Basil, and a bit of Cilantro. The way I was raised, I thought squash only went with cinnamon, sugar, and butter. Wrong!

Think of cooking as what they did before processing was available. Flour, for example. They didn't have really fine, really white, flour. Bleached white flour is hardly a "whole grain" anywhere, anything good about it was removed. It's about as healthy as white rice from Asian fast food. Flour... needs to be a grain that was crushed. That's all, no further processing. My dad has been making his bread from flax seed because it has more nutrients than wheat. So he said anyways, I haven't researched that.

When you put up preserves, really watch your recipes. Figure out what you can reduce or eliminate from the recipe and still come up with a good product. If you can't, you'll have to change your portion size from "That looks small" to "OMG tiny! I'll starve!".

Fish is great stuff, just know where it comes from so you can get an idea of what it's lead and mercury levels are. And don't salt it, use any non-sodium spice you like. Trust me, it's hard to put down the salt shaker, but you can do it! At least for me it was, salt, butter, and ranch were hard to get away from.

Since exercise isn't something you can do right now, you really have to pay attention to portions and what you're actually eating on a day to day basis. You can make some changes once you can start moving around more, but you have to do your meal plans for no additional exercise. Every single diet plan out there is designed to use exercise. Yours won't be. Don't even look at a diet that mentions the importance of exercise, since it takes that combination to be effective. Look at how to eat without the need for exercise since that's the position you're in.
 
I was talking offline with a member, and one of my "issues" is I have a tendency for very low blood pressure - my goal is to stay at 110/70, but I've been known to drop to 60/40 before (talk about a fast way to really worry the cardiac nurses when hospitalized.) Apparently I require higher amounts of sodium (The 60/40 happened when they put me on a low sodium diet while hospitalized). However, I'm going to make a go of only using "good" salt without funky ingredients - leaning to the Celtic sea salt - and not salt that is "added" by other folks. That way, I can control it a bit better (though I'm to consume up to 10g (aka 10,000mg) of salt a day per doctor). Tachycardia is also an issue if I get to low in salt (at the same time as the bad BP drop, my heartrate went to a bit over 200bpm. Yuck.)

Thank you ALL for all the ideas, which are really helping me out in choosing the best way to start out on this! I was thinking last night, back when I was testing groundwater and assisting with soil and air testing for the State Enviornmental Quality department, that folks don't understand just how incredibly contaminated the air, soil, and water is - and it's something that is never given one whit of though. Now, I'm really seeing how bad "food" is - merely more chemicals that are considered ok. Kinda makes me sad for us as humans
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Butter and cheese are actually 2 of the best sources for healthy natural fats. No reason at all to avoid them. If you can get PASTURED butter that is even better. It is loaded with vitamins.

As for Celtic Sea salt, that stuff is AWESOME.
 
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Adding another question. I'd like to finally wean from my coffee (with bad creamer heh), in the morning. I quit my Mt. Dew addiction with drinking tea (black teas as green tea is listed as a no-no for before surgery).

Are teas pretty good - either black or herbal? I don't like anything in my tea, and like most about any kind of tea except Lipton. Herbal, green (when allowed), black, oolong, all of the tea, I like
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I don't have time to read all the posts in this thread right now, but saw this thread. Forgive me if I duplicate info or thoughts others have shared...

"Diets" as we think of them don't work. That's partly because we think of them as temporary. Even if a person succeeds in losing weight, they bounce back up -- often higher than before -- shortly after they reach their target weight. This is because in our culture, so often we think of "temporary" when we think "I need to diet."

Instead, you need to think of developing healthier habits for life. These should include both your food & beverage intake and your physical exercise.

I watched my grandfather lose around 70 pounds. He kept it off for nearly 25 years. He's put maybe 10-15 pounds back on in his 80s, but still is doing well. I took off about 30 pounds a couple of years ago. I don't intend on putting it back on ever. (I am back to my pre-baby weight. Baby is in college...) On the other hand, I watch another family member yo-yo diet. He'll get an urge to diet, take off 20 pounds (needs to lose 60 or so) then will gain more than he took off. This is because he is 1) not ready to make the real changes that are necessary 2) thinks that holidays are an excuse to throw out all changes and 3) thinks of a diet as temporary. 4) His dishes are too big. (Seriously. I saw another 20 pounds go on with no change except a new set of larger dishes...)

A couple of tips:
1) If you drink coffee "beverages" get rid of them. They are HUGE in calories. Removing all of these from my diet played a key role in my weight loss. In fact, about 10-15 pounds of my weight was probably a result of these alone. (Some Starbucks beverages have as many as 800 calories...)

2) Limit your soda intake, whether diet or not. These disguise our proper feelings of fullness and may have other effects that science is just now researching. (I don't want to give specific studies here...Google can help find those.)

3) Reduce the size of your plates and bowls. Our mind is used to "heaping" food to a certain height on the plate. I've seen this multiple times with people. It also played a role for me. I put away the dinner plates and only use luncheon plates, smaller cereal bowls, and saucers. Each dish of food has 20-25% less (or even more) than the larger dishes. Yet, our brain thinks we are eating the same amount of food. We have "trained" ourselves that food must take up a certain portion of the plate, or be heaped in a certain way, or that we must have X amount of seconds. So, use smaller plates and dishes.

4) Keep healthy, low calorie snacks on hand instead of telling yourself that you can't snack -- unbuttered popcorn, carrots, fruit, etc. While the fruit has calories, it's better to snack on quality snacks than to end up eating something worse, like chocolate.

5) Don't keep junk food in the house for anyone. Allow yourself only to have these things at set times -- like I'll buy X on grocery shopping day and when it's gone, it's gone for the (week, month, etc.)

6) Holidays are not an excuse to abandon reason.
 
I still drink coffee but I use real cream, not the powdered stuff. I also sweeten with a little splenda, stevia or erythritol. The real cream is a good source of natural fats. Avoid fake creamer and the powdered stuff like the plague!!! That stuff is a nutritional nightmare.

As for tea, I like cinnamon/orange type teas. There is some natural type I can get in bulk at a local coffee place that is DELICIOUS!!! It costs a small fortune but it is worth it.
 
The best thing I ever heard was "Do more, eat less, and go to bed early."

I've been keeping myself busy and honestly I kind of forget about eating sometimes. I've lost 15 pounds with eating less and doing more--I definitely don't go to bed early--I should probably work on that.
 
Speaking of teas, I'm a stucker for Twinings' Lady Earl Grey tea. Delicious!

It is going to get rough with me!

Now how would I make my BLT's all better?
 
TOTALLY disagree.

To make a healthy BLT, make your own mayo and do not use soy oil, and just use the lettuce as a wrap and ditch the bread. Use as much bacon as you want.
 
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