I know I am being selfish and it drives me crazy but I can't help it..

[luvmychicknkids]

I 100% agree with you, rooster-red. Honestly, this is going to sound bad, I think he is too stupid to realize how and why this is hurting me!!!! I love my husband dearly, but sometimes he is a bit slow.

He is a math whiz, a genius at his work, super charming, and a complete and utter idiot.

Oh my........a bunch of emails from angry BYC members would be soooooooo cool!!!! LOL

Thank you guys. you all really are the greatest!!!

 

[redhen]

wow! whats so bad about the air there??..just curious..

 

[luvmychicknkids]

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It really isn't something bad about the air, just the high elevation make it very hard for some people to breathe. I have heard there are some it actually helps though.

 

[rooster-red]

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Thin.
High altittude.

 

[luvmychicknkids]

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Yes, you NEVER get used to watching your child turn blue.

 

[redhen]

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It really isn't something bad about the air, just the high elevation make it very hard for some people to breathe. I have heard there are some it actually helps though.

ahh, okay, i see now, Thanks, Wendy

 

[Backyard Buddies]

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Thank you Rooster Red. You said what I was trying to say, far better. The couple has to set the rules to define the parameters of the marriage. If you don't set the rules, you give over any power you thought you may have. The truth is that most of the time, these folks who try to take your power, have a lot less of it than they appear to have. Given the choice between a relationship with you under your rules or no relationship at all, they usually learn to make adjustments. When you stood up and set the rules, Rooster Red, everything changed for the better.

 

[rooster-red]

luvmychicknkids I know things have got to be hard on you to say the least, but keep telling yourself just 15 more months, then you'll have the rest of your lives.




















OK, I know that didn't help, I tried.

 

[chels23]

I might have missed this somewhere, but did you tell you husband how upset you were. I understand that he didn't want to be alone for the holiday, but I'm sure you don't either. By accepting the ticket he rewarded her for being hateful. If one of my parents acted like her I would be too angry with them to want to see them.

 

[debilorrah]

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Yes, you NEVER get used to watching your child turn blue.

You never get used to seeing your child hurting in any way at all. How frightening!