I know what love is!

[vfem]

That brings me to tears girl!!! Its so unbelievably sweet!!!!

I hope you write him a nice little thank you and tell him wonderful those things are for V-day.

With my husband, I just feel I don't say Thank you enough. Those are the kind of things my DH does as well. Fills my tank in my car when he sees its low... builds me a garden bench at 9pm at night 2 days until christmas when he sees me sitting on the ground with the chickens... takes the dog out to pee at 6am so I don't have to get up until the baby gets up... does a load of dishes at 9pm, after a 14 hr shift at work before he even gets his coat and shoes off, because I've had my hands full with the little one all day!

Some men out there are just above and beyond AMAZING!

I'm so emotional now thinking about it.

You've got one of the few great one's honey, hang on to him and love him right.

 

[key west chick]

Well, many of you know my DH and I have been separated for almost 2 years. We get along great, things just didn't work out. Due to finances, we still live in the same house. This man, spent an hour last night trying to get one of my propane heaters to work for my chickens. It was like, 20*'s outside. He never complained. He also trims my goatie toes every few months and wants to build me a brooder for my chickies. Maybe someday, things will work out for us.

 

[Sissy]

Thats what is called as a keeper..
I have one too arent we lucky?

 

[debilorrah]

The one thing that my fiance does that never ceases to tickle me is signing to Yahoo IM and sending me funny audibles, and flirting with me online. He does this often and I love it!!! He ias usally asleep by 7 and I am up til 10 or later, so sometimes we don't get much time together in the evenings. Those IM's are awesome!!

 

[smom1976]

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Yes and this is one of our main issues in our relationship..

his is touch.. mine is quality time.. so out of old (very hard to break habbits)

I am constantly wanting quality time but I am not a big toucher... (ie, putting my hand on his shoulder, or hugs) and he is constantly comming up and trying to hug me .. especially when I am irritated at something..

that drives me nuts..

he is showing love I am not feeling love and I am showing love and he is not feeling love.. not a good situation..

But we do have our good points too.. We just have to work very hard at brining them out.

 

[Sissy]

Key west chick you two will be in my prayers .
that things work out for the both of you.
theres nothiing so great then the second time around.

 

[smom1976]

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I hope that they do.. it sounds like you both havent "totally" given up on each other.. and those things that he did was pretty nice of him..

 

[seismic wonder2]

Love is....
When you get up to turn off the light switch just before going to bed, look back to see who's still snuggled in the covers.
That's what love is.

 

[HennysMom]

aweeeeee

ya'll are gonna make me break out a box of tissues here...

I love it when hubby warms up the bed on MY side by doing "jumping jacks" in bed while laying down

 

[I have WHAT in my yard?]

Part of what got me thinking this was an event the other day and many women were standing around. I realized after a moment that they were all ***ing about their husbands! And I had to think: Why??

Yes, we women need someone to vent to, but a general session like that is just bad. He is my best friend. Why would I want to diss him like that behind his back and in public? These women are not my busom buddies.
Besides, I picked this man and married him. If I put him down aren't I telling people that I stink at choosing?

I finally could stand it no longer. I said, "They can't be all that bad, the majority of you get to stay home with your children. Lots of women would take your husbands in a heartbeat for that alone." And I walked away. Needless to say these women are not likely to be my best friends any time soon!

Sometimes, we just need to reframe what the other person is doing and look for the good instead of the bad.