If we ever needed prayers now...

[cockadoodlemom]

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Yes Lord Jesus Our protector. Amen.

Amen!

 

[kees]

it's so crazy
he tells my daughter that i'm going to die
and lately he's been telling her that it's going to happen soon
it seems like i'm watching a movie because this is so unreal

 

[PurpleChicken]

Sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. I can't
comprehend how this guy can do to you and your sweet child
what he is doing.

There is a seat in he*ll with his name on it.

 

[kees]

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OMG! It's you!

 

[maplesky7]

How old are your girls? And you talk to your children after he says this right and assure them in the most gentle way a mother could that you are not going to die, you are healthy, and sometimes people say things that are not true and this thing that he has said, is not true.

You should probably guard them, guard thier hearts and don't let him play with thier emotions.


I'm experiancing something similar and something was said to my 7 year old last week and it was a way for him to get at me through her and it turns my stomach that he'd do such a thing. I don't even know if he realizes it. It's not right. And my children have boundries and I will protect them. This is my first experiance of going through matters such as this. I call my Pastor when I have to for support, I love my church family. Remember to lean on the people around you when you need to...that's what they are there for. And guard your heart and guard your children's hearts. Be the better person and maintain your dignity. The children do not need to be in the middle of this dispute.

hugs to you,
gretchen

 

[kees]

I mean, not you. But remember I said that everyone has their poop. Well, mine got worse. I also was rear-ended at high speed as I was going to work on Thurs. The sun was shining on ppl's eyes so everybody started to slow down, except for the woman behind me. I went to work, because you have to in this economy. No one to take care of my daughter. Next day, brought her to school and drove myself to the emergency room. She thought that I was going to die. I have to keep reassuring her that everything's fine when it really is not so great.

 

[kees]

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Hi Gretchen,

She's six years old. She has to see him this weekend for visitation and whenever I have to bring her I feel like throwing up because I'm so scared. It's very hard to find someone to say that they'll give up every other weekend to help with exchanges, especially when you tell them what's happening.

Suzy

 

[maplesky7]

aww...I know.

I injured my back last Oct. and was out all of November. I was in serious pain. I knew I was in trouble when I could not lift my legs to get out of bed...I had to lift them with my hands. I was in poor shape. Fortunately I live near my mom and she was able to take my little girl to school and help with my youngest too...I was on some pain pills and just couldn't have done it.

I hope you are well. And I hope you are feeling better. I also hope you are able to get some rest and recover and that your daughter can have peace of mind.

God WILL be with you.

hugs,
gretch

 

[PurpleChicken]

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I'm so sorry you are going through this. You saw me a few days after
the "blowup" in my life. You saw I was in pain, tried to make me feel
better, and shared your story with me. If you need to talk to someone
give me a call.

Don

 

[maplesky7]

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Hi Gretchen,

She's six years old. She has to see him this weekend for visitation and whenever I have to bring her I feel like throwing up because I'm so scared. It's very hard to find someone to say that they'll give up every other weekend to help with exchanges, especially when you tell them what's happening.

Suzy

I can NOT even imagine.

Under the circumstances does he have to have supervised visits? It doesn't sound like it from what you said. I'd be feeling the same kind of raw emotions as you. I am so sorry she and you have to experiance this. I hope for a better outcome for you.

hugs all around,
gretch