When I was young I was a self-assured, self-confident person. I met someone, fell in love. He was my first serious relationship. Over time, he became verbally abusive and borderline physically abusive, he lied, cheated and treated me extremely poorly. Only because I met my current husband was I able to walk away from that situation. I was so in love with him at the time, that's what it took, me to meet someone else. So I understand how some women stay in bad relationships. It took years and years for me to regain my self esteem and self confidence and it took tons of patience on my DH's part. Here's the opportunity: Ex-boyfriend is on facebook, 1st chance I have had in literally 30 years to tell him what he did to me. Because when I walked away, I never looked back. BUT I feel like I have unfinished business. Over the years I have always wanted that opportunity to let him know just what he did to me. Should I?