im bout to puke.. advice please

[SpottedCrow]

I agree Erin.

Noone needs to be treated like ploop.

How are you doing this morning?

Did Miss Thang come back? If not, good riddance to bad rubbish.

You're still only a kid...I can say that because I'm twice as old as you.

My first love cheated on me with my sister and I found out about it on Valentine's Day!...now how do you think that made ME feel? I got over it after a while and moved on and am now married to a really nice guy. And my sister found out what a jerk he was and divorced his hiney, finally.

Dave, just hang in there. If she wants to talk it out, let her. Tell her how you feel or felt...if she still wants to leave, help her pack...

 

[seminolewind]

Never ever ever accept behavior from someone that you would never give out. For example, if you would never go out to drink instead of talking it out, do not accept it from others. If you prefer her company over going out with the boys, do not accept it from another. If you show respect to another, do not settle for less respect from another.
My motto in life is to expect the same treatment from others as they get from me. No less. Karen

 

[TxChiknRanchers]

Very well said Karen

 

[rooster-red]

Dave you have every right to expect exactly the same amount of effort and respect you put into a relationship to be recipricated, it should be 50/50.

High maintainence partners expect 90% and give 10%.

Pack her stuff up and leave it, and her, at the curb.

If a person treats me with respect, I'd do anything I could for them.

If they disrespect me, I wouldn't spit on them to put them out if they were on fire.

I've been that way since I was 16 and have not regreted it once.

Edited to say I've been married for 23 years, and its always been 50/50

 

[paganfish]

My philosophy?

Don't cry when it's over...rejoice! Sometimes what we WANT to happen isn't what we NEED to happen. But, we don't see it right away...eventually, (or should I say-hopefully) we do. Therein lies the lesson.

It works for me every time...but, I've had to learn the hard way.

Good luck and hang in there Dave

~c:->

 

[rooster-red]

Anybody hear from Dave?

 

[pipermark]

Dave, sorry but if someone is missing for 30 minutes and you are falling apart, self-examination is called for. You need someone Live to speak with, a preacher , someone you trust. Therapy (not a bad thing been there myself), can be helpful. If monies are a problem there are usually free ones available through Christian services or local health clinics.


I hope all works out well for you.

 

[newchickowner]

Just wondering if anyone's heard from Dave???

 

[chickbea]

DAVE - Did you take her back?
No, NO, NO!
Run for your life!

 

[rooster-red]

Did Dave disappear on us?