Funerals are never fun, 'specially for friends & family. I try to remember that the body in the casket is nothing more than a shell; the real person has moved on to something bigger & better, and will be there to greet us on the other side. A funeral should't be to mourn the loss of the deceased, but a celebration of their life, and a time to reflect on the good times you shared; to be glad that they were a part of your life.