I used to feel the same way.And it hurts when you buy eggs and they end up dead,or not make it all the way.It took me a long time to figure out what was wrong.hinckj on here BYC,helped me a whole lot!!!!!!! She give me a lot of info.that I needed to know,that I was not doing.
I would cry,and stay up all night long.And it would get on my nerves so bad.I almost stopped hatchingI bought me 2 LGS...And thought that I had it made !!!! ,,,,WRONG !!!!!
Still could not do right,but this was before I talked to Jody,and she steered me in the right way.If you read this Jody,I mean what I say.Thanks so much for all your help
,,,And yes I still go back and have to ask ?`s..If I can be of any help just let me know or hinckj on here at BYC.THe big secret is don`t open the bator.Temp should always be around 99.5 to 100.And the 1st 18 days,humity should be around 55-60%.Then fill all trays with water,and I don`t take my plug out,but that is better for me.Then the humidity should be around 65% or so.And that should work,Good Luck,,,,BackSwampGirl