Judge Willaim Adams

[deerman]

I just watch the full 8 min ......noway that man should get off , hell i don't care if its been 20 years, as far as the mother ,i think she was trying to help in her own way , by even giving her daughter a spanking one time, rather than let him keep beating her, heck he had to go get another belt ,because the mother had taken the first one away.


Yes that was plain abuse, verbal also

 

[deerman]

Wish i hadn't watch that........i want to go beat the crap out of him now.......

big man beating a 16 yr old girl........Jamie your was right ,he really enjoy it.........CREEP

 

[redhen]

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I know... it bugs me too...

And he's going to get away with it.

 

[Mattemma]

I read about it on Huff post.Lesson learned is if you are beat you need to report it before the 7 year time limit runs out.

I see no need to hit a child.Imagine if you got hit every time a spouse,friend,or co-worker was upset with you?!?!!? I would not want to live like that,and I think children deserve the same respect of not being hit.Why it is ok to hit your child of any age?

This judge has issues.Atleast he can not beat the families he deals with in family court,but he can still dish out some hell with his decisions.

The woman supports her dad as most abuse victims support abusers. I am not sure what she expected would happen when she posted it.I would like to know why she posted the video,and then tells people they are wrong for being angry at her dad.She needs help too.

 

[punk-a-doodle]

Absolutely disgusting. More so since this initially seems that it will not be addressed by law.

 

[mom'sfolly]

People think...if you saw a random man on the street hitting a teenage girl with a belt, would you think it was appropriate? Would you think it appropriate if he was hitting a boy? Would it be appropriate if she had mouthed off to him? What makes it appropriate if he is her parent?

Nothing, in my opinion. This girl was almost an adult, and the whole "you're a girl, you have to learn to take it" thing implies some other things about daddy and his attitude toward woman in general. And this man is a JUDGE, in FAMILY COURT. Not appropriate, and a punishment that just shows the parent's lack of control and "issues". This is not discipline, in is punishment and control. This beating didn't teach the girl anything about not downloading computer stuff, it did teach her that her parents cared more about controlling her than about her as a human being.

Finding out about the custody hearing makes perfect sense to me on the timing of the video release. Any good old boy judge in Texas who sues for custody is going to win it; this young woman just guaranteed that her dad will actually have to make a case before he every gets custody of her sister. Looks to me like she is trying to protect her sister.

 

[TinyChickenLady]

mom'sfolly :

People think...if you saw a random man on the street hitting a teenage girl with a belt, would you think it was appropriate? Would you think it appropriate if he was hitting a boy? Would it be appropriate if she had mouthed off to him? What makes it appropriate if he is her parent?

Nothing, in my opinion. This girl was almost an adult, and the whole "you're a girl, you have to learn to take it" thing implies some other things about daddy and his attitude toward woman in general. And this man is a JUDGE, in FAMILY COURT. Not appropriate, and a punishment that just shows the parent's lack of control and "issues". This is not discipline, in is punishment and control. This beating didn't teach the girl anything about not downloading computer stuff, it did teach her that her parents cared more about controlling her than about her as a human being.

Finding out about the custody hearing makes perfect sense to me on the timing of the video release. Any good old boy judge in Texas who sues for custody is going to win it; this young woman just guaranteed that her dad will actually have to make a case before he every gets custody of her sister. Looks to me like she is trying to protect her sister.

I totally agree. I couldn't figure out why she uploaded it after all these years until I heard that he was seeking custody. He doesn't deserve custody of his daughter.
In my opinion, a parent should teach their child respect if they expect to see it. I've told my father this myself. "If you want your child to respect you, you must teach your child what respect is and why people deserve it." I don't think that's a lot to ask of a parent. I'm sure many of you on here have children and that you respect them. They will not learn anything positive from you if you only use negative reinforcement (sp?). By beating a 16 year old girl, she will then learn that she only deserves that kind of treatment in her adult years.
My parents taught me that I should demand respect from a significant other and that if they couldn't treat me right, then they don't deserve me.
I'm a fan of positive reinforcement. As someone said on here earlier, give the child time to think, THEN spank, then discuss how to do things differently next time so that the spanking doesn't have to happen again.


On a completely off note: I'd like to thank everyone who has commented so far for keeping it civil and not arguing. I was afraid to start this conversation at first for fear that it would be closed by the mods for fighting or getting out of hand

Just another example of people showing each other respect. Thank you guys.​

 

[Royd]

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I totally agree. I couldn't figure out why she uploaded it after all these years until I heard that he was seeking custody. He doesn't deserve custody of his daughter.
In my opinion, a parent should teach their child respect if they expect to see it. I've told my father this myself. "If you want your child to respect you, you must teach your child what respect is and why people deserve it." I don't think that's a lot to ask of a parent. I'm sure many of you on here have children and that you respect them. They will not learn anything positive from you if you only use negative reinforcement (sp?). By beating a 16 year old girl, she will then learn that she only deserves that kind of treatment in her adult years.
My parents taught me that I should demand respect from a significant other and that if they couldn't treat me right, then they don't deserve me.
I'm a fan of positive reinforcement. As someone said on here earlier, give the child time to think, THEN spank, then discuss how to do things differently next time so that the spanking doesn't have to happen again.


On a completely off note: I'd like to thank everyone who has commented so far for keeping it civil and not arguing. I was afraid to start this conversation at first for fear that it would be closed by the mods for fighting or getting out of hand

Just another example of people showing each other respect. Thank you guys.

I'd rather be beat with a belt, than be banned by a BYC mod....It hurts so much.

 

[deerman]

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I totally agree. I couldn't figure out why she uploaded it after all these years until I heard that he was seeking custody. He doesn't deserve custody of his daughter.
In my opinion, a parent should teach their child respect if they expect to see it. I've told my father this myself. "If you want your child to respect you, you must teach your child what respect is and why people deserve it." I don't think that's a lot to ask of a parent. I'm sure many of you on here have children and that you respect them. They will not learn anything positive from you if you only use negative reinforcement (sp?). By beating a 16 year old girl, she will then learn that she only deserves that kind of treatment in her adult years.
My parents taught me that I should demand respect from a significant other and that if they couldn't treat me right, then they don't deserve me.
I'm a fan of positive reinforcement. As someone said on here earlier, give the child time to think, THEN spank, then discuss how to do things differently next time so that the spanking doesn't have to happen again.


On a completely off note: I'd like to thank everyone who has commented so far for keeping it civil and not arguing. I was afraid to start this conversation at first for fear that it would be closed by the mods for fighting or getting out of hand

Just another example of people showing each other respect. Thank you guys.

I'd rather be beat with a belt, than be banned by a BYC mod....It hurts so much.

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[chickened]

I recieved a few spankings like that one from my step mother as a kid and I learned the closer you get to the one doing the spanking the less it hurts, they cannot get a good swing.