Hmm, interesting. Standing at the foot of the bed looking towards the head, I'm on the right. It's like that in the master bedroom and when we were remodeling and temporarily in the craft room it was still the right. Yet, in motel rooms it's often switched. Sometimes it bothers me and sometimes it doesn't (I think the times it bothers me is when I'm closer to the door). When DH is working overnight and I have the bed all to myself (or if I take a nap in the middle of the day) I sometimes sleep on his side, and sometimes in the middle, but most often I sprawl diagonally across the bed with my head on his side and my feet on mine. In the last house we lived in, I was on the left, right up against the wall (and sometimes I would sleep pressed up against the wall too!). We had a tiny little bedroom that really wasn't big enough for our queen sized bed. Since I was more likely to get up to go to the bathroom and I usually got up an hour earlier, it resulted in some interesting acrobatics as I had to vault over him to get out of bed. It's not been that long and I'm in just as good a shape as I was then, but I'm not so sure I could do it now if I had to.