Lashing out, mostly out of disgruntledness

[redhen]

I came to the sad conclusion, many years ago, that there are a few..(although it is only a very few) people that will always be better than me. *sigh* i just plot evil revenge on them and it usually brightens my day considerably.

Does that make you feel any better?

 

[muddypuddles]

Everybody has their ups and downs. Aren't you the one who has the puppy with parvo that I read about on another thread and the one who brightened everyone's day with the thread about Holly-the proud pecan broody?

 

[eggsforsale]

Redhen...Thanks for the laugh!!!

 

[thebritt]

One thing I tell myself, and have told my daughter (now 18), is that one allows oneself to feel how they WANT to feel. You're only as mad as you want to be. You only allow people to tick you off as much as you want to be ticked off. "SMILE AND NOD" is something I have to tell myself at work all the time. You know - "water off a duck's back". I tell myself, "Water - Ducks" (especially while driving!

.). You may want to consider some type of meditation to allow yourself to "come down" when you are extremely P.O.'d at someone/thing. (Mine is "Water - ducks..."). Don't let the turkeys get you down (another "old" saying). I hope I don't sound preachy.

. I totally understand how things can P.O. a person, but it's how we respond that can fuel our own angst.
Do you do physical (like running, etc.) exercise? The body goes into a "flight or fright" response to stress. and since punching someone in the nose is not an option, physical exercise will really help to release the built up adrenalin that occurs with stressful situations. It also helps the body physiologically "mellow out".
I haven't read ALL the previous posts, so sorry if I'm repeating advice.
Please, take care. We care.

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[annie3001]

i have a facebook acct: i have been hooked,,but now i too am annoyed at it and bored.. i have a life! they dont! why are (they) on the computer...all the time....you have chickens right? be at one with them. good luck.


andrea,ct.

 

[annie3001]

close your facebook acount. i am thinking on doing that. its an easy solotion!

goodbye facebook

 

[georgialee]

I haven't read the replies yet but your post is yelling 'depression' at me. It could be depression from hormonal imbalance, but I would at least go to a doc. to see what's up.

 

[Up-the-Creek]

We all look at life differently.
You are still young and having those feelings is very normal at your age. In time things will change and you will realize it isnt worth fretting over. I am pushing 40 and I have done a flip flop change in attitude since I was your age. It helps to have people to talk to and believe me I agree with everyone here that money doesn't equal happiness. Look at what you have and be grateful. It is all about growing,...take some "me" time,..it will pass.

 

[JennsPeeps]

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I agree that it does sound like you've experienced a change in temperament that doens't sound normal for you. A visit to the doc may be in order.

As for all the FB things, I hide the posts that annoy me. I also post things that excite me and that I want to share with my FB friends. DF and I are planning our wedding but we haven't announced it yet. We're working on a "Labor Day BBQ" that will actually be our wedding, and our pending trip to Hawai'i is our honeymoon. People who know us know that we're super frugal and haven't been on a vacation since we've been together (over 5 years). They may suspect that something is up. Or they may think that we're bragging about our cheap vacation in Hawaii. It doesn't matter to us.

 

[redhen]

Your probably just under alot of stress right now..i see that you are still trying too save your dog from Parvo..that would make me a stressed out witch too! You just have alot on your plate right now..