If ever you decide you want to try to hatch again, we have had good successes in shipping eggs and have reported hatches. We ship a bit different than many people. This is how we ship eggs..... (The customer decides what they want marked on the package). We put fragile, but will add more based on what the buyer wants! We also have a 72 hour heat pack that we ordered especially to go with our eggs.)
https://www.backyardchickens.com/a/the-garry-farm-how-our-eggs-are-wrapped-packed-and-shipped But maybe you will find someone near you with Lavender Orpingtons!
And please Do not cross your Lavender Orpington with a blue Orpington as you will not be getting that pure lavender color you want. (Just saying that in case someone local might suggest that as a way to get Lavender Split) With a black yes, but not a blue.... Have a blessed day! Praying you find yourself a rooster or chicks or eggs!!! Nancy