yes, that was me with my chicks when they were little. The family spent so much time with them. We held them from day 2 (when we got them), but soon found out they didn't like being handled at all. They became friendlier when we stopped handling them and just petted them. I have tamed cockatiels before and handling them really made a difference for the better. With my hens, it didn't work. Go figure!
That is very interesting about your experience with raising your roosters and hens. It just goes to show that they are what they are. It's one of the reasons I love this site, it is so helpful to read what others have done that did and did not work for them. The short story is we had a pretty long stretch where we could not really get to them easily. Note1 Don't get chicks before you have a coop and run they grow up FAST!
Winter came (up till then we had never let them free range.) we were too scared of what the dog or even our naughty teenage cat would do, (not to mention all the other wild animals we have seen here.) We only had 3 at the time but two of them were roosters.
Winter was long their housing was small, and we had to let them out to clean the mess in the garage. Did I mention to NOT get chickens before you have their housing set?
Did I mention DH hates having chickens in the garage.
Well, the roosters suddenly starting fighting when we let them "free range", the driveway because of all the snow we had. so we had to separate them, and we just never attempted to pick them up after all that. I read everything I could on raising roosters and everyone has a different way. I finally came to the conclusion that there really are only
two main ways of raising and living with roosters. I went with the second way. Let a rooster be a rooster.
Don't handle them, don't respond to any of their aggressive signs, just ignore and walk by them. Don't play in any of their "rooster games",
If one wants to challenge you just throw treats to them (never hand feed) and in a
very short time they will realize that you are NOT a rooster or one of his hens and that's it. So, he respects us, and we respect him.
It has worked for us, and I don't have to have everyone in the family try to hold him to the ground, or knock him off Collette, or try and carry him around for a 1/2 an hour.
No way, no how, am I going to have either one of my kids try to do that!
For us that is not an option, but for
others it works. Truthfully I really have NO desire to pick them up and carry them they are HUGE! I am sure someone that handles chickens all the time would just scoop them right up. Honestly I love having him, and I can't imagine not having the dynamics he brings. I think everyone should have a rooster really I do! (I know that is not always possible.) I find him
way more fun to watch than Collette. So, bottom line everyone has to find
what works for them, and once you do, don't try to fix what isn't broken. So, I guess too it all depends on the people raising them, as well as the circumstances of their own family and flock. Oh, the stories I could tell about Ricky.