1. They don't seem to have a definite dominance status yet, though one comes out on top more often. Give the one that comes out on top attention?
I need to reminder myself that your puppies are really still puppies. I bet that 90% of the time they are just playing and a pack order is not going to be decided for a few months. Most likely the top dog is going to be the one standing stiff legged over the one laying on her back. So, yeah, she’s probably the one to reassure of her rank. But, rank might be rather fluid for a few months.
2. Should I let them fight in my lap? If one is in my lap, the other has to be and it usually ends up in fights.
I give preferential treat to the more dominant dog. Since, we have two hands, I pet the other dog off the lap, but next to me. I do make sure that the dominant dog knows that they are getting the better deal and that the pack order is not in jeopardy.
3. FOOD. and treats. Food is MINE, but in training if one doesn't listen, I'll move to the other and give them treats if they listen. Is that affection? Should I not give food to the lower dog first? Because that makes training a lot more complicated.
I agree that treats are a payment to following orders. The dogs should work for treats, hence if they don’t listen, no treat. Giving treats out of order doesn’t seem to affect the pack order. With feeding time, everyone (all 5 dogs) line up in a semicircle, they all must sit and stay as I place their dishes down and everyone is released at the same time. If they break the stay and try to eat first, the dish is pulled away. No one eats until everyone is following the orders. This process is a great way to establish that you are in charge and for all of the dogs to work on their impulse control.
4. And how does affection work for the lower dogs?
The lower dogs are just happy to be in the pack, but we do sneak in some one on one quality time. Our lower dog knows that this does not mean he has been moved up in rank.
Another area to watch is control of privileged places in the house; a dog bed, your bed and furniture, etc. The choice spot is the domain of the alpha dog. The lower dog may steal a choice spot when the dominant dog is away, but they will get punished if they get caught.
Jim
I need to reminder myself that your puppies are really still puppies. I bet that 90% of the time they are just playing and a pack order is not going to be decided for a few months. Most likely the top dog is going to be the one standing stiff legged over the one laying on her back. So, yeah, she’s probably the one to reassure of her rank. But, rank might be rather fluid for a few months.
2. Should I let them fight in my lap? If one is in my lap, the other has to be and it usually ends up in fights.
I give preferential treat to the more dominant dog. Since, we have two hands, I pet the other dog off the lap, but next to me. I do make sure that the dominant dog knows that they are getting the better deal and that the pack order is not in jeopardy.
3. FOOD. and treats. Food is MINE, but in training if one doesn't listen, I'll move to the other and give them treats if they listen. Is that affection? Should I not give food to the lower dog first? Because that makes training a lot more complicated.
I agree that treats are a payment to following orders. The dogs should work for treats, hence if they don’t listen, no treat. Giving treats out of order doesn’t seem to affect the pack order. With feeding time, everyone (all 5 dogs) line up in a semicircle, they all must sit and stay as I place their dishes down and everyone is released at the same time. If they break the stay and try to eat first, the dish is pulled away. No one eats until everyone is following the orders. This process is a great way to establish that you are in charge and for all of the dogs to work on their impulse control.
4. And how does affection work for the lower dogs?
The lower dogs are just happy to be in the pack, but we do sneak in some one on one quality time. Our lower dog knows that this does not mean he has been moved up in rank.
Another area to watch is control of privileged places in the house; a dog bed, your bed and furniture, etc. The choice spot is the domain of the alpha dog. The lower dog may steal a choice spot when the dominant dog is away, but they will get punished if they get caught.
Jim