Life is changing for us, and it is not for a positive reason

[debilorrah]

I don't understand why the pastor may not officate your marriage.....what rules bothers him?

He has only officiated 4 weddings. One of them the bride was 2 hours late and he almost missed a flight. He called back and said no thanks. I think he doesn't enjoy it. So now I need to find someone else.

 

[Kelly G]

Definitely find someone who wants to do it. What a curmudgeon!

Celebrate with those who want to celebrate with you!!

 

[rosewolf22002]

Can you have a friend do the wedding? That will mean more to you than some stranger.

 

[debilorrah]

Can you have a friend do the wedding? That will mean more to you than some stranger.

I don;t know anyone who is an ordained minister.

 

[1muttsfan]

Wow, that guy knows NOTHING about brides

 

[HeatherLynn]

This reminds me of this episode of dear Jim, where they knock out the minister and need to replace him real fast. Anywho check online my first google hit was one where you can become an ordained minister and perform weddings legally and its free. I agree it would be special to have someone close to you perform the wedding.

 

[rrrmamma]

Debi- sent you a pm. we feel like you are a friend. what county are you in?

 

[debilorrah]

Debi- sent you a pm. we feel like you are a friend. what county are you in?

San Bernardino, which happens to be the largest County in the nation. Hehehe. High Desert area of San Bernardino County.

 

[debilorrah]

UPDATE:

Daughter in law has been having contractions since her 6th month and has been on meds and bed rest. Tomorrow she is 36 weeks and stopping the meds. I may have a grand DAUGHTER this week!!!!

 

[1muttsfan]

Woohoo!! Hoping everything goes well