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Sorry to hear about the fire.. I can relate... I had 3 photo albums with a bunch of pics of family and friends growing up... Back in 2003, my husband and I were in hard times and had almost everything we owned in storage.. we had just moved to another place after being evicted and because we hadn't changed over the address, we didn't get the past due notice and they auctioned everything off... There was almost nothing of "value" in there but most of it was irreplaceable... EVERYTHING from my childhood was in there...
Goddess
Thanks, all- it was hard at the time, but we had the baby pics and wedding pics in a fire safe, and everyone furry survived, so it was just a moment in life to take stock of what's important- and that has nothing to do with 'stuff.'
Occasionally there's a moment of sadness for the lost Christmas ornaments from Germany from several generations back, things like that...but for the most part, it's not that big a deal. It was sort of a paradigm reset and kept us in that mindset of eyes-on-the-prize...not on the Joneses...
And taking all of your stuff down to almost nothing? There's a certain Zen in that. Going to a hotel room without shoes, pajamas, toothbrushes? But all together with the cats and dogs, all safe and uninjured? Precious.
I'm an optimist. I don't dwell on the half empty part. I see potential for a full glass!