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I am always truthful in ANY feedback given - here, in my personal life, in my work life...
I just feel like often, we can word things in a way that's not so...on the edge, and/or gives better feedback. For example (and this is a silly example, but you get the drift):
Not this,
"Man, that's the ugliest comb I've ever seen - are you sure that's even a Marans?"
but this,
"His comb has too many/not enough points."
NOt this,
"His legs are too short, and he's too narrow in the back."
but this,
"His legs are short in comparison to his overall balance; he could also use more width in the back." (this actually gives better feedback as a whole than the previous statement)
Okay, so some of you are rolling your eyes, and calling me mamby-pamby. That's just fine - but both examples get your point across; one is just a bit gentler. I'll stress that BOTH ARE FINE for posting here. Just sayin'......my opinion.