Marriage

[call ducks]

we are here for you

 

[redhen]

I'm so sorry.

 

[deb1]

I think that leaving you hanging, neither divorced nor married, is cowardly on your husband's part. If he doesn't want to be in the marriage, he should just say so. What he is doing is cruel. You can't move forward either to save your marriage or move on past the break up.

I agree with Mahonri. Your son probably knows more then he is saying. I would guess that in an effort to not take sides, your son is keeping certain things to himself. Maybe not an affair, but there is no way your son could live in the apartment with your hubby and not discuss this with him.

 

[teach1rusl]

Big hug to you...I'm sure this has knocked you for a loop.

I hope that everything works out for the best in the end; Sometimes it takes a little while to realize what's best...

 

[sfw2]

Lou, I'm so sorry you're going through this.

I'm sure it will be tough, but you're right, you WILL get through this. I agree with the others who say your son may be trying to stay out of the middle. I guess your husband will, eventually, get around to telling you his reasons . . .

Take care of yourself!

 

[EweSheep]

 

[Luvin Life]

 

[horsejody]

 

[PineBurrowPeeps]

I'm so sorry honey. Keep trying to figure out what is going on. There is no way I would give up 32 years of my life without a fight and without knowing exactly what is happening.

Praying for you.

 

[Hoosiermomma]

As one person said in a pp, we are all here for you whether it be an ear you need or a hug for comfort and reassurance

or a

for you husband, we're here.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this.