May have to get rid of all my chickies. Sorry, long.

[lovemychicks9]

I hope all works out for you and your family. You and your family will be in my prayers. I know how terrible asthma can be as my husband suffers with it pretty bad. That is one of the reasons we moved here as he can not take the cold at all. You are pretty close to us here so we are here if there is anything that we can do to help you but I pray all work out and you will be able to stay here with the family. Trudy

 

[luvmychicknkids]

Thank you so much, guys.

I REALLY appreciate the offers. Hopefully, I won't have to call on you to take any of the chickies, but it certainly helps knowing there are people who would. At least I don't have to be gone in a month. That gives me/us time to find a truly suitable solution for all. That means I won't (most likely) end up living in some nasty apartment and may very well be able to take my babies with me.

I know that a lot of times he doesn't understand what he considers my obsession with animals. However, life has been hard a LOT of times over the years and my animals were always there....through everything. They never judge, they never say "I told you so", they just listen. Then they give you that look, that cuddle....you just KNOW they understand that you are hurting and they care.

I reallly like the lease to own idea, smpezzi......that may be the route we end up having to take. I was literally going crazy trying to figure out what to do about the house!!! Thank you!!!

 

[Cetawin]

Oh honey

I know exactly how you feel. I have been in this house a year and a half and still had not completely unpacked. I just knew we would move again. Sure enough we move the end of summer.

Cry all you want to...

 

[luvmychicknkids]

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I am so sorry.

I know how hard it is to always have to pull up your roots....and I hate it. I mean, there are things that I like....as someone mentioned, just seeing the different cultures around the US is cool, but I like being rooted. I have wonderful dreams of my husband being retired and KNOWING I am home.

 

[Oblio13]

I smell underlying issues. A good counselor would help you decide in which direction - and with whom - you'd like your life to proceed.

 

[goatkeepers]

Oh hun, I am so sorry to hear you've got such tough times right now!!

I wish there was something I could do to help, or even know the right words. I have never been in a situation like that so I have no idea what I would do. It's such a tough call!! I sure hope you guys get things figured out. Sounds like at least now, you have a little more time. We're all here for you when you need to vent!

P.S: How are the BLRW coming along??

 

[joebryant]

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Unless he has done something to make him undeserving, he has every right/reason to feel that way. You, the children, and he make up the FAMILY that is most responsible to each other. You can't and shouldn't allow yourself to be overburdened with former and extended family members.
EVERYONE has some siblings and/or extended family members who would love to move in and/or be cared for by a willing relative...

 

[jenjscott]

I know this is not related to this subject, but I couldn't help but notice your new title.

We moved around alot the first 15 years of our marraige, with some of it in seperate states/countries. We finally got to settle down before the kids were grown, and now that they are grown I am finally getting my chickens! I only had to wait 35 years! Good luck with your family.

 

[conny63malies]

Oh man thank blows. being a military wife myself i know how hard it is to give everything up and live where you dont want to be. I hope things still work out for you somehow.

 

[Harley's girl]

luvmychicknkids,

Sending prayers your way! Glad to hear you don't have to go right now. Things will work out. Seek God and ask His guidance. If God brings you to it He will bring you through it. :aww Wish there was more I could do. Just know up here in Ohio you have a friend praying for you and your family!