Wow. You really read a lot into a simple attempt at trying to help you. I'm sorry you felt I was attacking you, pouncing on you and trying to rile you up. I was trying to help you avoid future issues.It doesn't matter. At most we'll have 2 chicks. I think we're going to have zero. I don't think they'll make it through the night. With luck, she can be happy that I'll be back down to one chicken in my so called "tiny" little coop, that literally fits the description she gave me and is significantly larger and much better designed than most coops I've seen. I had hoped to have a helpful supportive community here who would help me when I needed help with what I needed help with, not give me unsolicited advice anticipating that I'm doing everything wrong and waiting to pounce on me when they find something. She made me feel terrible, attacked and unsafe enough here that I've been going through hell alone today because I'm afraid of having "well meaning" busybodies attack me rather than help me with what I'm going through. I don't know what to do and things have been getting worse and worse since last night, but I couldn't get answers when I needed help last night, then her, then everyone defending her. I tried laughing about it to my husband at breakfast this morning how silly and ridiculous it was that she was looking for something to nitpick about and when I passed the "rooster" test, she started telling me my coop was too small because I needed x amount of space when I had x+y in all cases and he said, "why are you engaging with a troll? their only goal is to get you rilled up, zap your energy and waste your time." So I thought, oh, yeah, he's right, she's being a troll, so, I'll move on, but all I found out was that bullying as long as you phrase it as "advice" is allowed here. Well, congratulations, you are a resounding success Dobie. You have completely zapped my emotional energy today. I felt ganged up on by all of you defending her and here I am, wasting my time even more because leaving it alone didn't help. But no, I'm wasting my time arguing about something stupid instead of feeling like I can ask the questions I need to because I don't feel supported here, I feel attacked when I'm down. So I didn't ask. So now I have a dead chick, a presumed dud, an extremely sick chicken alone in a box and 2 eggs in a makeshift incubator, 1 in really bad shape and 1 just pipped, both thankfully alive for now, and a child who might literally lose his mind with grief if they don't pull though. FB... back on FB, my chicken group hasn't been super responsive lately, but I've never been treated like this there.
I'm really sorry you are going through so much. This really is a very helpful, supportive group.
I and many other members can help you. The best way we help you is by asking lots of questions and making observations.
THE biggest problem I see here on BYC with health and behavioral issues boils down to undersized and improperly designed housing. Most of the pre-fabs are designed to be cute and inexperienced chicken owners do not know that they are not appropriate. I was only trying to let you know that the coop is too small because you will likely run into issues as so many others have before you. You will have to figure that out with time.
NO ONE here is trying to hurt you. We are only trying to help. You are going through a very tough time with the birds and it is very emotionally draining and can put you on edge. I've been through that before. I know exactly what it feels like so I feel for you.
I'm an engineer by training and I guess it's in my blood because I tend to just make observations and state conclusions I can draw from them rather succinctly. I'm most assuredly not a troll. But I am blunt.
I read your other thread on what is going on with your broody. That's terrible. Have you tried dusting her with some permethrin based poultry dust?
How is she doing now?
Have the other eggs hatched?
Hopefully the hatch is over and you can focus on helping your broody recover. I would offer her some sardines or tuna in addition to chick starter or Flock Raiser, any complete feed with 18-20% protein to help build her back up from the mites/lice you are trying to get off of her. Also offer her some Poultry Nutridrench.
As soon as you can, move her out of the coop so you can treat her again and do a full blown clean out of the coop. Rosalie will need to be treated as well. Maybe you could crate them separately but next to each other in your garage or a spare room in your house until you finish tackling the coop. Try to keep Esmeralda warm.
I would get some concentrated permethrin, Permethrin 10. Dilute it per the label instructions into a garden pressure sprayer and use that solution for the coop. After you remove every last bit of bedding from the coop and sweep/vacuum it out with a shop vac, spray down every surface inside and outside the coop paying particular attention to the places where wood meets wood as that is where the mites hide during the day. Let the coop dry out. You can use a large floor fan or whatever you have to speed up the process. Then add fresh bedding.
All of the above will need to be repeated in 7-10 to kill the mites that hatch from the eggs that aren't killed by the spray the first time. Sometimes it takes a third treatment if the infestation was bad.
I hope you read this.
I hope it helps you.
If nothing else comes from this, I sincerely hope it made you feel better writing down all that you did, even if you've misinterpreted me and my intentions.
