Good morning everyone and Happy Mothers Day to fellow moms everywhere!
I've been MIA for a bit, popping in here and there. Been busy with getting the kids ready for 4H. The chickens have become HUGE, the ducks are even bigger! The kids have their goats, we went to the weigh in for County yesterday and then Billy got his babies tagged in for state. Becky still have her bantys living in our dining room. She has to work on getting a little mini coop built for them.
We had taken in our niece for about a month. She is 19 and messed up. She has a drug problem and boy problem. We put her in a rehab center (we paid for the treatment in advance) - she had 3 days left. She had court on Wednesday - she stayed out all Tuesday night, showed up at 5:30 Wednesday morning and expected things to be all hunky dory. We lectured her and scolded her for hours, took her 3 hours up north to her hearing and she wanted to come back. We brought her back - she had rehab on Thursday, she surprised us by saying she decided to go to an AA meeting, her therapists vouched for the girl she was going with. The only thing is, our "girl" lied and had no intentions of going to AA - she was meeting this boy she met on Myyearbook. We discovered all this the evening of my surgery. Good thing it was out patient, otherwise who knows what would have happened as she had taken my 14 yr old daughter for a "walk" with her. This ungrateful little snot couldn't even give me a day to recover! I had the 4 screws removed from my foot and was in major pain. We told her to go - she stayed that night but left yesterday. Before she left, she left us with a very nice message in our bath tub. She decided to shave and left it all in the tub for us. Real nice, real mature.
I have learned a very valuable lesson - Billy and Becky are two amazing wonderful kids and I will not allow anyone in my home that has the problems that this girl did. I won't jeopardize Billy and Becky's happiness and health for someone. It will be a long time before I can help or trust someone again.
I've been MIA for a bit, popping in here and there. Been busy with getting the kids ready for 4H. The chickens have become HUGE, the ducks are even bigger! The kids have their goats, we went to the weigh in for County yesterday and then Billy got his babies tagged in for state. Becky still have her bantys living in our dining room. She has to work on getting a little mini coop built for them.
We had taken in our niece for about a month. She is 19 and messed up. She has a drug problem and boy problem. We put her in a rehab center (we paid for the treatment in advance) - she had 3 days left. She had court on Wednesday - she stayed out all Tuesday night, showed up at 5:30 Wednesday morning and expected things to be all hunky dory. We lectured her and scolded her for hours, took her 3 hours up north to her hearing and she wanted to come back. We brought her back - she had rehab on Thursday, she surprised us by saying she decided to go to an AA meeting, her therapists vouched for the girl she was going with. The only thing is, our "girl" lied and had no intentions of going to AA - she was meeting this boy she met on Myyearbook. We discovered all this the evening of my surgery. Good thing it was out patient, otherwise who knows what would have happened as she had taken my 14 yr old daughter for a "walk" with her. This ungrateful little snot couldn't even give me a day to recover! I had the 4 screws removed from my foot and was in major pain. We told her to go - she stayed that night but left yesterday. Before she left, she left us with a very nice message in our bath tub. She decided to shave and left it all in the tub for us. Real nice, real mature.
I have learned a very valuable lesson - Billy and Becky are two amazing wonderful kids and I will not allow anyone in my home that has the problems that this girl did. I won't jeopardize Billy and Becky's happiness and health for someone. It will be a long time before I can help or trust someone again.