If it was just the eating Iād agree but itās all the other things.
Going off Markās guess with Sandy, Bok is beyond elderly and I think it is just her body shutting down. This is where Iām being selfish and not letting her go with the hope she might pull through. Not taking her to be euthanised and whether thatās the right thing if sheās in extreme pain is what is tearing me up inside.
Thank you MJ, and everyone for letting me share. It helps.
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She had 2 mouthfuls of the tuna (I blended it to make it easier to eat

) then turned away to sit as she is in the above photo