You've done well imo. You haven't imposed yourself upon them and while they may not be over keen on cuddles they do trust you and that makes everything easier.I just realised I used the sentence "I put Mary in the tub" like it's no big deal because it really wasn't a big deal to slowly herd the entire flock into the bathroom, close the door, then corner Mary with a big towel and lift her into the bath. I closed the shower curtains to give her a sense of containment, so she'd be less inclined to try hopping out, then I left her to settle while I slowly herded the others back outside.
She was an angel to handle, trim and lift out again.
Two years ago all of that would've been unthinkable.