"She just doesn't like pets and let me know that with so much misery in the world with humans, it is wrong to become involved with pets..."
Oh, puleeez! The people that I know that do the most good...people who foster kids and conduct food drives and shovel their neighbors' driveways... these are people who also make room for pets. The more love, the better. You sound like a caring guy. You need a gal who is as caring and giving and open as you are. Good luck!