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Awesome advice from the trooper--and it works even if you're just feeling down! Cant tell you how many times I've 'dressed up' just to go to Walmart...sounds ridiculous, but it really works.
The love of my life (an ex) & I were together for 10 years (2 kids). While we are actually still close (I was stupid & young when I left him), I spend some holidays with my FIL, SIL, BIL & their families. We don't even use the word EX...we would've recently celebrated our 24th anniversary had I stayed. THAT'S a LONG time to keep 'ex's' in your life!
You cant choose your family & you cant choose who you love, but you CAN choose to keep certain people in your life, regardless of anything else. And while you can't help that you love the man (the heart wants what it wants, right?), you CAN choose NOT to let him ruin your life. I said the same thing about never getting married again. I was wrong...a few times (trying to replace the man you still love doesnt work, btw
)...but the point is, that even though I screwed up something very precious to me (hindsight & all), I am still chugging right along with my life--AND LOVING IT! With each disappointment & heartbreak in my life, I learned some valuable lessons. So if you do nothing else, LEARN from the experience, dont let it keep you from getting on with life & love!
Awesome advice from the trooper--and it works even if you're just feeling down! Cant tell you how many times I've 'dressed up' just to go to Walmart...sounds ridiculous, but it really works.

The love of my life (an ex) & I were together for 10 years (2 kids). While we are actually still close (I was stupid & young when I left him), I spend some holidays with my FIL, SIL, BIL & their families. We don't even use the word EX...we would've recently celebrated our 24th anniversary had I stayed. THAT'S a LONG time to keep 'ex's' in your life!
You cant choose your family & you cant choose who you love, but you CAN choose to keep certain people in your life, regardless of anything else. And while you can't help that you love the man (the heart wants what it wants, right?), you CAN choose NOT to let him ruin your life. I said the same thing about never getting married again. I was wrong...a few times (trying to replace the man you still love doesnt work, btw

