We looked into being a 4H member last fall and attended one meeting. The club is very demanding of your time and they schedule when you are where. It was something we decided would not work for us right now. Maybe in another year or two. I checked into other clubs near by and they sounded pretty much the same. It is kids who have one parent that works part time or not at all that are members. There is no way you could both work full time and make the kind of commitement they demand here. Sad but, true.