BigDaddy'sGurl :
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And you may want to use your maiden name when you make the appointment
And how, exactly, is this anything BUT vindictive?? The WIFE didn't do anything this time!
Also, making the blanket statement "I hate birds" once in a stressful situation does not promise a personal abuse or mistreatment of birds at one's workplace. I personally hate dogs. I have dogs. My neighbor has dogs. Do I abuse them? Even when they annoy me? NO. Would I treat them with kindness and respect if they were injured or needed help? YES.
No not being vindictive its called venting as is throwing things out but NOT acting on them.
Its just ideals that let the fact your not happy with what happened be expressed, not letting
it stay inside you eat away to you do something you will regret.
Each to there own way of dealing with lifes troubles. I look at it like this theres times
Each of us say things that are not meant to be mean sounding but there taken that way.
Lots of things are written we enjoy thinking we will do them, they get rid of the anger by
using your imagination an thinking of the looks on folks face. But do we act on them no.
I did state it was not vindictive. I just said to CYA.
I still tell her to CYA no matter what she decides to do. None of us
can make her do anything she dont want to do.
Ultimate Responsilbilty for her own actions is her decision.