My son's headstone is finjally done

[oldrooster]

Amen to that. I already told my kids, my mom, my brother...whoever would be stuck with disposing of me...I want no parts of viewings and funerals. Open the hole and dump me in it. What they want to do after I'm buried is up to them. The thought of having people come and gawk at me just freaks me out.

I barely know my father's side of the family and in fact NONE of his brothers or sisters (he was one of 9 kids) came called or wrote a note to us after he died. I was 25 at the time all my cousins are older than me I only met 5 of them and got the same response from them. My mom's side for the most part has treated me worse than a perverbial red headed step-child, So if they don't like me or want anything to do with me now why would I want them around when I am dead. I understand about the old maid told her minister she wanted only women pall bearers when he asked why she replied "If they didn't want to take me out when I was alive they ain't going to take me out when I die".

 

[sezjasper]

She sounds my kind of person LOL

 

[bluejeans]

i like dragons and swords to.. it is a cool head stone as the kids would say

and you like it and that the main thing.. it reminds you of your son, what he liked ..
and the way he was .. Gods blessings

 

[bluejeans]

rayden sure is right we all walk this same road to gether the lonly road to the grave but meeting friends along the way helps. . so why do people of all religions and ethnic groups think the grave is not the end... some people think we are reincarnated into babies about to be born and some people think they become less than human in reincarnation and must work their way through many life times to being human again --- some people think they go immediatly to a happy hunting ground other people think some other things .. but why is this ?

the bible gives us a answer .. it says because God has set eternity into mans heart..

 

[bluejeans]

my wife sent me this she got from a friend i enjoyed it and thought i would just pass it along..


its tell of a God whom has already won every one heaven with out any help from any of us..

 

[warmheart]

My heartfelt compassion on the loss of your dear son. What a lovely headstone! I have no doubt that your son watches over you, so proud of his brave Mom. May you feel some measure of comfort and strength as you read everyone's caring encouragement. The stone is a wonderful tribute from a loving mother. Your son will be warming your heart until you're together again.

I'm sending you good thoughts for today.

 

[Henny peeny]

I recently was to David it took 3 weeks to get to him I had plans then we were to got o the ren fest then the hurricane Sandy and then I couldn't get a hold of my Aunt so I finally got to it the flowers were gone we put there they were fake but maybe it wasn't kids the wind could of blown them away the rabbit i had there was still there and a cross small was broke i have that to repair and take back to David I told him I would return it, so I bought a big rabbit for David and put it on his grave I like it next time I need to find a dog a bulldog or rottie or lab he loved all dogs but some more then others. I have the marker to show where he is but I have it stuck in the ground here where the dogs he has loved and know I plan to put things around it that I wold put on his grave but I would have no fear of kids taking them I know this may not make sense but I am sure he will like it. I live 600 miles away from David and I can't get to him as much as I like to so I think a mock grave for him woulod be good.

The picture is my son's grave and the things I left for him I hope he likes them.

As fr family members I don't have many but if I had kin that didn't want to bother with me I would care why? I can get a long with out them and HAVE and when ever my number is up it is up. I don't have kin that doesn't want to bother with me so I don't have this problem my husband is the be creamated and I am to my husband is to be scattered over where he has hunted and I am to have half with him and half over my animals I have put in the ground. I have only had most of my life kinship with animals I have a way with them they take to me. ANY ANIMAL I don't have a hard time with. I never thought my son would die and I heard the words you never thought it would happen to you but it has.

I truely am sory for you that have had a hard time with your family and have lost a loved one it is the road of woe and suffering you go down and some may say thing that may not sound right but they are trying to be good and try to make you feel better but there is nothing other then to bring your loved one back that could make it better.


Rhayden

 

[Birdcrazy]

It's absolutely beautiful,
so very sorry for your loss