My son's headstone is finjally done

[Henny peeny]

Ya know I have seen a lot of headstone that are so cool and I never thought in a milion trillion zillion years I would be puting my son in the ground we thought in years he may die of something for deitbetes He was one but never thought this would happen. I was to go but everyone thinks as my husband the storm coming is going to be big and I can't go don't know hiow it will be I will make it to PA but as for being there he said he was though HUGO and trees were down power out and my husband would feel better if I stay I agrwee but now that I know it is out there I want to go it is killing me knowing it is there the people the did it was very nice the lady I talked with was very nice she seem to know what it is like I reckon talking to people who have lost a love one. Now she deals with people and this the guy that did my father he was the one who imbaums and dont talk to the people I didn't like him much he didn't seem he felt for us the way he talked but he did answer quetions my son had to be in a body bag now this is more painful then I can tell you knowing this just makes it worse he would not of had a open casket he was burnt to badly but the body bag is because the body weeps and they can't have contamination now my father had so much pumped into him from the IVS that I was fearful he was also but in a body bag but the fellow I have said about said no he will look good and no body bag and a open coffin I didn't think much of this guy but I may of thunk wrong when we saw dad he was good he had two bruises on each side of his face but you woud never know and he even look younger I don't know how he did this he shaved him to I was very impressed from a guy I didn't think much of but in seeing this I think I reconsidered my sister said the guy that usaully take care of this is sick and he is trying to be there I think maybe I was wrong and this guy did so good Dad I am sur would of be gloting of how good he looked.

Death is only the begining of a new adventure one we don't know anything about and it doesn't matter what religion you are death will come I now regrat my dislike for this guy that did dad and maybe if some day somethat reads this I hope you will not judge as I did, it was wrong the guy did as he said.

Rhayden

Thaks for reading/listining

 

[Scottyhorse]

That's so cool, I want someting awesome like that on my headstone. I am sorry about your son, though

 

[Henny peeny]

don't fret he is ok as my father is my son and father was together in life and I reckon they had to be together in death. It took some time to find this headstone but I have STILL not seen it I was to go last weekend but we were to go to the ren fest so this weekend I was to go or was it last anyhow the storm was on its way and I could get out but to get back well not sure so I said as soon as I can get a hold of my Aunt I will make [plans to go out to PA I can't get her on the phone and it from people I have talked to from the area I lived and the friends of my son's they don't sound like it is too good, so I wait.





Rhayden

 

[sezjasper]

God bless and comfort you in your loss, I am so very sorry. The headstone is a beautiful tribute to your handsome boy.

 

[chixie]

I love it

 

[chickenzoo]

Very nice and I'm sure he loves it. I believe it was laser etched. I did sandblasting for years...mostly my artwork on glass.doors in homes etc. Sandblasted has a different feel to it then laser. You can get photo mask for sandblasting but laser etching is more high tech.
Any how....very nice.

 

[Marty1876]

Your ahead of me. I can't make myself pick out Dads headstone yet. It was 6 months yesterday.

 

[sezjasper]

Your ahead of me. I can't make myself pick out Dads headstone yet. It was 6 months yesterday.

So sorry for your loss, Marty. My dad has been gone for over nine years and some days it still seems very new. But usually, we talk about him as though he is in the next room, and it helps--my daughter, who was only 2 when he passed away, talks about things her "Deed" would say. (My dad was a wise guy, and it makes me so happy to know that my daughter "gets" him!)

When you are ready, I'm sure you will choose a beautiful stone for your dad.

 

[oldrooster]

What Marty is going through is why I told my family to cremate me and just dump my ashes in a low spot on the ground and put a plant on me. no muss no fuss. If I had a wife and kids I would pre plan and pay for my funeral and have my plot and stone paid for the only thing the need do is update my vitals for the obit and away I go.

 

[sezjasper]

Amen to that. I already told my kids, my mom, my brother...whoever would be stuck with disposing of me...I want no parts of viewings and funerals. Open the hole and dump me in it. What they want to do after I'm buried is up to them. The thought of having people come and gawk at me just freaks me out.