Well, the little girl in question is here with me right now, on my desk, sitting on the keyboard. She has read every post in this thread, and we have discussed the outcome. Turns out she is a pretty smart chick- She said that it doesn't really matter what she is, she knows that I love her best, and that's all that matters. So, I guess we'll just wait to see what she looks like when she grows up, maybe it will be easier in a few months. I'll be back when she starts to feather out, and perhaps you can all try again, with better luck. Thanks everyone for your help!
Grace & Arwen