As I mentioned previously, I'm in my 70's and things are harder to do. All of my joints are shot but I keep going. Just a couple of suggestions. I have hanging 40# feeders in my coops and auto waterers. I generally have 200/400 birds. I hatch out 200/300 chicks each year. I realize around half of the chicks will be males. I do grow them out, but I breed for show quality. We have a local swap twice a month and each swap I take some males and sell them. I only keep the best as future breeders. I have been doing this for years and people know my birds so I have no problems selling them. It helps to offset the cost of the feed. I go through approximately a half ton a month. Older males when they stop performing well usually end up being stewed. I do and have had special birds (pets). I have one old gal I have had for years. She still lays an egg now and then and very out of shape due to probably chicken arthritis but she will live her life out here. At treat time she knows where to go for her special treats.
I have read this entire thread and you have been given a lot of good advice. I'm sorry to say this, but I would anonymously (you or a friend) contact someone like animal control. Maybe your mom needs it and it may help to wake her up. You, going over to clean out her coops will only temporarily help her until the next time you go over there to clean them. It appears you have bent over backwards trying to help your mom. Maybe she needs to hear it from someone else. Since you apparently don't have any birds yet, maybe take some of your moms birds and get them back to good health. I don't know if she comes to visit you but maybe she would take notice. Leave her, her pretty boys. I wish you the best of luck...
I have read this entire thread and you have been given a lot of good advice. I'm sorry to say this, but I would anonymously (you or a friend) contact someone like animal control. Maybe your mom needs it and it may help to wake her up. You, going over to clean out her coops will only temporarily help her until the next time you go over there to clean them. It appears you have bent over backwards trying to help your mom. Maybe she needs to hear it from someone else. Since you apparently don't have any birds yet, maybe take some of your moms birds and get them back to good health. I don't know if she comes to visit you but maybe she would take notice. Leave her, her pretty boys. I wish you the best of luck...