You are all in my thoughts and prayers today.
I love the way you described the foster care system and your relationship with the birth mother. As I type this, I am awaiting for news on the birth dad of our two foster-to-adopt sons. He is supposed to be on trial for some really ugly crimes and I am just shaking my head, wondering how these two precious little boys came into our lives. Being a foster parent is such an incredible gift and, yet, it can be one of the most painful, difficult things out there, especially when dealing with the legal red tape. I'm so glad the caseworkers are helping and supporting you all right now.
Hugs and prayers surround you!