The point is, the neighbor wouldn’t just think you were a liar, you’d have proven yourself to be one. If you’re going to lie about having proof of ownership, how do I know you’re not lying about actually owning them? How do I know they don’t actually belong to some other neighbor kid, but you’ve always wanted them. and have found your chance? (A stretch, I know, but can you see where I’m going with that?)I wouldn't care if my neighbor thought I was a liar if I knew she were a thief.
I have a hard time calling the neighbor a thief. That indicates that the neighbor took the chickens from OP’s property. The chickens came to her.
If you’re going to “threaten”, be prepared to back it up. Otherwise you’re just making noise and wasting time. I agree that the police have better things to do with their time, but the neighbor may welcome their involvement. It could also backfire as there may be fines for allowing your animals to roam the neighborhood.The police have better things to do than deal with this, that's why I suggested *threatening* to call. If she still refused after a threat to involve authorities and a promise to try and contain them, call the cops dude.
Actually, the neighbor did show mercy. She didn’t kill the chickens, give them away, take them for a long drive in the country and release them, or report OP for having nuisance animals. We don’t know her motivation for locking them up, but maybe it was to see who would come looking for them. Maybe she’ll give them back once she can be assured they will no longer show up in her yard.I suppose that would be a *nice* way of approaching her, but it also would have been *nice* of her neighbor to let her know that the chickens had been coming over, if she didn't know who's chickens they were it would be appropriate to ask around the community or put up a *Found Annoying Chickens* sign or something. I personally wouldn't negotiate with her after she refused to give them back without proof of ownership, that proves to me she has no intention of giving them back without fighting over it.
Offering to pay for damages isn’t negotiating - it’s taking responsibility for allowing the chickens to go over there in the first place, and maybe making amends with the neighbor so if the chickens ended up there again, the neighbor might be more willing to just call and let you come get them.
OP stated in their first post that “sometimes” the chickens get out of their yard. “Sometimes” is kind of a vague term. They apparently didn’t know where the chickens were going, so why would the neighbor know where they were coming from?
We haven’t heard from OP in a while, so we may never know how this story ends. I do hope the OP gets their chickens back.
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